Saturday, September 11, 2010

Sticking my boot-covered foot right in my mouth...

So I have to admit; I've been gloating a bit over the last few weeks. I have managed all of mine and my husband's finances, savings, spending, EVERYTHING for the last 5 years. My husband is no financial slouch, but I have often been resentful (and not always quietly ;)) of the many burdens I carry by myself. So last week I handed him the general information he needed to pay all of our bills and take care of our budget and I told him to have fun. And for the 1st time in my life, I actually let go and have not even looked at our online checking acct (hardly.) This is a huge feat since it's usually something I do 6 times a day. And I have gloated a little because I feel like it really is going to be an eye opening experience... for him.
And I told my husband with confidence just a few days ago that I could ABSOLUTELY make it on the spending $ I was getting this week. And positively I could do with the gas allotment- In fact, I reminded him of some other expenses he might've forgotten and even told him I could do with LESS gas $. As we spoke on the phone and he was figuring out our allowances, I was waving my imaginary, mental hand in the air and saying "Easy. Peasy. I've got this." After all, I told my husband, the only thing I use my spending $ for is Starbucks.
Well tonight I decided I would put a gift card to use and indulge myself. After all, I have been drooling over boots for weeks now. And I have yet to buy a single pair. And the gift card would cover at least 1/2 of the boot purchase, so it was a smart buy as well.
Weeeelll... 3 indulgences later (the adorable boots, a rare 6-pack of beer, and some chunky chocolate chip cookes), my "Easy peasy budgeting week" has officially gone down the drain. I am officially left with $2 to spend for the next 6 days. I sat in the parking lot, counted my money, and seriously considered taking the boots back for the time being. Because, obviously, I can't tell my husband that *I*- budgeting extrodinairre- is out of money and needs more. I can't admit that, during his 1st week on the job, *I* am the one who has had a reality check.
So here's my prideful plan: Scour the Sunday papers tomorrow. Pray that I find a coupon for Soy or Almond milk (b/c I'm lactose intolerant and can't work with the skim we have in the house). And then cross my fingers and toes and hope I can get said milk for $2 or less. I may have to start an entirely new blog about my withdrawls from Starbucks. And I promise their stock WILL plummet! But it's gotta be better than admitting fault to my husband, right? Right?

2 comments:

  1. Ha! Maybe a sweet friend could gift you with a box of soy milk...

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  2. Right after we had Chloe & right about the time I went back to work I handed all of the bills over to Robert & instructed him to come up with a budget since clearly mine wasn't working (it was actually that he wouldn't stick to it). He had no idea how much money we spent on anything (other than rent & his car payment). He never knew if things were paid on time, he just knew they got paid. My constant nagging that we didn't need to spend money on this or that just made him mad & in more of a mood to spend the money. AFTER he was given the budget to figure out he realized just how much money we were blowing on a bunch of nothing & has since reformed himself! I hope things work out for you :)

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